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Don't be afraid to ask questions!!Jun 08 '01 Write an essay on this topic.
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The Bottom Line Sometimes there are little things we take for granted. Some are okay to do so. Others really need our attention. Don't overlook them, address them as much as possible.
I would have to start off by saying, if you are with someone that is your mate, and that you do plan on being with this person, and if you are not planning on being with this person, you must come to the realization that you may become a father sooner then you anticipated. You must be prepared in also areas. Not just the fact that you will give her money once a week. You must also offer to this child your time, your concerns, your playtime and everything else. It is happening a lot these days, where some people aren't allowing themselves the time to prepare. Yes it is hard to prepare, and when is the right time to prepare is something that we have all been asking ourselves for years. You will know when the time comes. This is a question that has been tossed around by so many. She got pregnant so what do I do. Well the first you do is sit down with her and make some responsible adult like decisions. Are you planning to marry? Considering your living situation now, is this going to be suitable to raise your child in? Who are the working parents? Is one parent still in school? These are only a few of the necessary questions you need to ask each other and you need to get an answer to each one. The best idea is to come up with a workable solution to the problem, then finally work toward resolving the problem. Make all the changes and adjustments you can in the first 6 months of the pregnancy. Some females will have difficulty after or around the 6 month, which can reflect on the changes or adjustments you are trying to make that will help when the baby comes. Of course if you are not living together, and don't plan to, you as the father will still have a role in this child's life. Even if you feel hostile now, or you feel like you can just walk away, or you do walk away for a period of time, you must realize this will return to bite you in the behind. One day, and it will come very quickly, your child will be at that age, and will see you, knock at your door, or call you or you will be buying lettuce at the local store, and the cashier will be your child. This child is a part of you, why would you not want to share their world with them? New fathers, whatever the reason you were are have just become a new father, or other, this is your mark on the world too. You have the right to love this child, teach this child all the things that are valuable to them to live and make the best of their world after you are gone. Teach them the tools to survival. Teach them to survive in better standards then what you had to go through. Or teach them how to achieve like you did. Explain things to them that help them understand, so that they can make better decisions about what they may encounter when you are not there. If you have any difficulty in making any ideas make sense, or just don't understand, and feel you are doing some wrong, then talk to another father. Just ask and I am sure they will more then happy to assist you the best they can. Try to seek out all your friends or family that have the knowledge that can help you. Talk to them, and don't be afraid of the tiniest embarrassing ones, they are the ones that are usually the easiest to conquer.  |
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