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Whatever you do, DON’T let this happen to you!
by HJS33 | Aug 15 '02
If you feel at ALL pressured, walk away! Knowledge is power, so learn the 4C’s and any other tidbits you can find first. Get a guarantee in writing.

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Re: It's funny that I stumbled on this review.... (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
Sorry to hear about your bad experience. That is just awful! Please e-mail me the link to your review when you write it; I'd love to read it!
Heidi
Jul 11 '03
7:12 am PDT

It's funny that I stumbled on this review.... (Reply to this comment)
by antybean
because I've been thinking of writing about my recent fiasco with my jeweler. I wasn't sure where to put it and didn't want it to be off topic.

The short of it is - my jeweler damaged my custom-made wedding band when I brought it in for inspection in October, 2002. In fact, the original is now gone - it's been 9 months and they have been unable to reproduce it to my satisfaction. I've been without it longer than I actually wore it (we recently had our 1st anniversary).

Anyway, great review - people really should learn as much as they can before making this kind of purchase. No one should have to endure these types of bad experiences.
Jul 10 '03
9:02 pm PDT

Re: further reading (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
Great suggestions you guys! Thank you both for reading/rating.
Aug 26 '02
8:46 am PDT

further reading (Reply to this comment)
by jucm
There was an enormous discussion on one of the sites I visit regularly regarding skepticism about the real value (monetary and cultural) of diamonds, and what should be considered when buying one.

I think that anyone looking to justify a diamond purchase or get more advanced information beyond the four C's about how to purchase them should take a look here:

http://ask.slashdot.org/article.pl?sid=02/08/13/2010256&mode=flat&tid=99
Aug 24 '02
3:09 pm PDT

Excellent Review (Reply to this comment)
by bryan0308
I am a manager of a jewelry store that is part of the largest jewelry corporation in the world. This is great advice for anyone interested in buying a diamond. Information is key to finding a good diamond. Do your homework and set a realistic budget.
Aug 23 '02
6:18 am PDT

Re: Couldn't tell if it was platinum or white gold... (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
I know! I thought that it was odd that they couldn't tell the difference either. My band is not small either (so in a way thank god it isn't platinum right?!).
Thanks for the congrats. Your ring sounds just lovely.
Heidi (hjs33)
Aug 19 '02
6:38 am PDT

Couldn't tell if it was platinum or white gold... (Reply to this comment)
by lambchops
yow! Seriously, Platinum is significantly heavier...can't imagine they couldn't tell (hubby's band is platinum BTW).

Anyway, great guide to finding a jeweler. I got married last year. My particular ring was an antique with stones cut around or before 1900 and the setting from about 1940. My hubby's grandmother gave it to us for the event. It's unique and lovely, and since it needed refurbished BADLY we sought out a jeweler. We found a lovely one that made it look like new, matched a diamond, etc...

Congrats to you, also!
Shelly.
Aug 19 '02
6:17 am PDT

Re: Congratulations (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
and I'm glad to hear you aren't selling it.
:)
Aug 16 '02
2:05 pm PDT

Re: Congratulations (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
I'm so sorry to hear that you got royally ...
Heidi
Aug 16 '02
2:04 pm PDT

Congratulations (Reply to this comment)
by AliventiAsylum
on your engagement.

We got royally you-know-what with my engagement ring (about 11 years ago). However, since I don't plan on selling it any time soon, I just didn't worry about it.

Patti
Aug 16 '02
2:47 am PDT

Re: Wonderful review! (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
Thanks for the complement Lori.
:)
Heidi (hjs33)
Aug 15 '02
4:41 pm PDT

Wonderful review! (Reply to this comment)
by drdevience
I've heard folks say that it isn't important, it's just a symbol.. it's the marriage and love that counts...

My response is: Yes, that's true.. BUT, you will have to wear this piece of jewelry for the rest of your life..... (one hopes, anyway.. grin)

~Lori
Aug 15 '02
12:08 pm PDT