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I know how you feel (Reply to this comment)
by bonsi6337
I know exactly how you feel. My husband is in the Army and it's exactly the same for us - the loneliness is heartbreaking. My kids are the only things that keep me sane. Wonderfully written - you conveyed the emotions perfectly. Di xx
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Jan 09 '07
11:22 am PST
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I am so sorry for your separation. (Reply to this comment)
by ivplay
I wanted to tell you that I was going to skip going home for lunch just today and stay at work. After reading this, I am getting out of here to see my boys and wife! I hope this separation is short, for your sake. My prayers are with you.
Jason
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Feb 18 '04
11:11 am PST
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Wow.... (Reply to this comment)
by hyaenidae
...I can't even stand it when the hubby is away for one night, and I know he's safe and sound...Many, many hugs and wishes for the best going out your way. I'm thankful for what our military does, and thank you for the view of the camp seldom heard from...
My prayers are with you and your family.
~hyaenidae~
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Nov 26 '03
9:03 pm PST
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Re: Gosh Lisa (Reply to this comment)
by HJS33
Wow. This was so powerful to me. Lots of hugs coming your way, and prayers too.
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Oct 06 '03
5:31 pm PDT
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Lisa My (Reply to this comment)
by theresaro
Heart goes out to you Tears rolled down my eyes I can't even imagine what you are oing through My prayers are with you. Take care
Teri
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Apr 08 '03
10:23 pm PDT
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I guess... (Reply to this comment)
by jetbluefan1
this is possibly the least damage war can do to a family, but it must feel like the worst :-( Hopefully this all will be done with soon...our prayers are with you hoping that he won't have to go again so you, Zack, and your husband will be happy ;-)
Anthony
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Mar 09 '03
6:15 pm PST
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Gosh Lisa (Reply to this comment)
by jo.com
My heart aches for you. I'll keep him in my thoughts and pray he stays safe. Take care of yourself and your little guy. jo
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Mar 07 '03
4:51 am PST
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I know this has (Reply to this comment)
by msmorvay
got to be hard, I am sitting here crying after reading this. I hope he comes back to you safe and sound very soon. In the meantime take comfort in your beautiful child. Take care.
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Mar 02 '03
8:14 am PST
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Wow... (Reply to this comment)
by lisaffire
What can I say... your words made ME want to cry. I couldn't imagine what you go through with each deployment. Whether or not you realize or admit it, you're one strong lady. Not for holding back the tears, not for fighting the emotions, but for supporting him in his choice of employment and being a good wife.
You didn't choose to complain or gripe about what he does, just spill out your heart and your feelings. Thank you.. thank you for allowing us that peek into your world.. the world of a military wife; a role few people can imagine.
Blessings to you and your family.
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Mar 02 '03
8:05 am PST
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I remember this (Reply to this comment)
by lyoness913
but it was me doing the leaving. I am bawling. I am sure he'll be safe and he'll come home to your wonderful family! God Bless!
Summer
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Feb 28 '03
10:56 am PST
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Great Article! (Reply to this comment)
by Tigerlily137
I don't think there's a dry eye in the house after this one! I'm also originally from Va, and have been in the Navy for the past 3 years. I feel your pain!
Great job!
Amanda
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Feb 27 '03
2:30 pm PST
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This made me... (Reply to this comment)
by arathi
cry too, Lisa. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
My very best to Zack and you,
Arathi
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Feb 21 '03
3:01 pm PST
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this is the first time an epinion has made me cry. (Reply to this comment)
by catladyfromnpt
I can't even imagine having to deal with those separations. I live in a navy town and have a few friends that are navy wives and I've always asked them "how do you do it?" and they've said the same thing, they get used to it. I know I couldn't, the separations would be hell. hang in there hon and hopefully he won't be away for too long. (((((hugs)))))
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Feb 20 '03
3:54 pm PST
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I Know What You're Going Through (Reply to this comment)
by goldmoon
My husband of 2 months, an Army Reservist, was called up a little over a week ago. We don't know where he's going or how long he'll be gone. I don't know how full-time military wives do it because this is just killing me. My heart is with you.
Angie
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Feb 20 '03
2:12 pm PST
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Blessings... (Reply to this comment)
by jcrismon
this was a very loving tribute to your husband; I will be remembering all of you in my prayers, and look forward to reading your piece on the celebration when he returns!
Jennifer
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Feb 20 '03
6:36 am PST
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There are no words.... (Reply to this comment)
by LadyECWfan
Lisa, all I can do is tell you what's in my heart right now, even though I know nothing can make things completely better until he's in your arms again. This has me crying, and gave me the sudden urge to go kiss my sleeping sweetie. I can't begin to imagine how you feel, but I admire you for the strength to hold on and take such loving care of Zacky too, even when you feel devastated. I don't see how anyone could say that you would get used to it or even enjoy it!!
-Dawn :)
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Feb 20 '03
12:50 am PST
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Bless you... (Reply to this comment)
by telynor
This is a very moving essay. As a former military wife, I understand what sort of hellishness is in every deployment. No, I never did get used to it, and I never welcomed it. The sacrifices that military families make for their loved ones is tremendous, and yet, no one ever seems to thank or acknowledge those who left at home. It's a damn shame. -- Telynor
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Feb 19 '03
9:57 pm PST
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Tears Fall Like Rain... (Reply to this comment)
by char.mike
and I know the sun will not come out until Matt is home. Lisa, I feel your pain and worry and understand what you are going through. I'll keep you, Matt & Zacky in my thoughts. Hugs, Char
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Feb 19 '03
4:52 pm PST
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Be strong, but hold on. (Reply to this comment)
by pick2
I only hope he knows that he's far more fortunate than most to have someone like you who cares so much.
God speed.
Dave
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Feb 19 '03
4:52 pm PST
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Required Reading For The Powers-That-Be!!! (Reply to this comment)
by AinsleyJo
This ought to be required reading for the powers-that-be in hopes that they'll carefully think through any call to war--and, if war becomes necessarily, that it will be done in such a way that it's over with a.s.a.p. instead of dragging out for a generation like the Vietnam War did!
This is a beautifully-written piece, and I thank God that there's now e-mail for quicker communication between loved ones at times such as these!
Love, Prayers, & Peace!
AJ :o)
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Feb 19 '03
4:15 pm PST
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Here's to you! (Reply to this comment)
by ariel10575
Lisa,
The sacrificies you, Matt, and Zacky have been making for the military and the country should be more than commended. You are all some of the greatest people around, and we know you are a true hero for what you are all doing and giving up. I wish and pray that soon you will get to a place where you will be spending much more time together, as you have such a loving family. The previous comment from Matt alone touched many of us as much as your beautiful words in your commentary.
You know that many of us are here for you whenever you need us. Do not hesitate to call anytime!!
-Rebecca
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Feb 19 '03
3:52 pm PST
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reading this brought tears (Reply to this comment)
by ifif1938
to my eyes and some very strong memories of the time my husband was in the army when we got married and he had to leave for a tour of Germany just months after we got married..Thank God we weren't at war then and I was able to join him after he was only gone 3 months...Then the Vietnam war started and we lived on pins and needles until that tour was over, thinking they would send him over there but for some reason they didn't and he did not re-enlist..
I still get shivers up and down my spine when I think of that time
My heart goes out to you.
Barbara
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Feb 19 '03
1:38 pm PST
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Goodbyes (Reply to this comment)
by rainsjuls
I found this very touching and shared it with my family. My father and father-inlaw where miliary. I'm sure it was very hard on my mothers. But I'm sure they could relate. I love the way you wrote this and how it touched my heart as you talked about your day. It was almost like I was there with you. You have a special talent like that. Maybe you should write a book about the day to day life of a Navy wife.
Julie
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Feb 19 '03
12:06 pm PST
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I could not ask for any one better than you Lisa!!!! (Reply to this comment)
by MSDough
Thank you so very much!!! You mean everything to me. Trust me when I say the same about you. I never will get use to it. When we say our goodbye's, I do everything to hold back only because I know it would make it that much worse for you.
I do know what you are saying though baby. I know a lot of guys that can't wait to go on det to get a "break" from their spouses. I, for one, am not one of them. When I married you, it was because I wanted to spend the rest of my time with you. I love you more than anything in the world Lisa. Plain and simple. You know I love Zacky as well.
Thank you for always being there for me even when I didn't need anything. I could not ask for anyone better than you. I am so grateful to have you as my wife. Thank you again.
I love you Lisa!!
Love,
Matt
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Feb 19 '03
5:57 am PST
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Lisa, (Reply to this comment)
by Lisa_J
My prayers are extended to your hubby, you, and Zach. Being close friends with several Navy wives, I realize how hard this is for you all.
Blessings,
Lisa
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Feb 18 '03
10:50 pm PST
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You said, (Reply to this comment)
by iwannagrowup2b
"I don't remember the drive home."
I've been on that road before, and understand it's a long, lonely road.
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Lisa.
Connie
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Feb 18 '03
2:17 pm PST
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You had me in tears (Reply to this comment)
by bops_mom
Lisa. I don't think I would ever get used to it, either. I don't know how my sister in law does it (my brother is also in the Navy). I am selfishly very glad that my husband got out of the Military shortly after we married....
Please know that we are so thankful for your husband and what he does and to you and all the Military wifes for the sacrifices you make daily.
hugs,
Melissa
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Feb 18 '03
2:16 pm PST
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Tears release our emotions (Reply to this comment)
by lorace
and I've released a lot with this, Lisa. You're right, it seems just like yesterday we were rejoicing with you because he arrived home (in the rain!)
I'll remember you three in my prayers. My heart really goes out to you.
Keep looking at that rainbow, somewhere there's light on the other side.
Beautifully written.
Hugs,
Lorace
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Feb 18 '03
12:22 pm PST
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Darn girl! (Reply to this comment)
by CindyJean
You really should warn people about reading stuff like this during certain times of the month. I'm a blubbering mess!
I can't tell you how much it means to me, that sacrifices you make. I take it very personally that there are people out there willing to risk their life for me, and I take it very personally that there are women brave and loving enough to share their husband with the rest of the world to keep us safe.
I'm sure this appreciation is little consolation, but thank you.
CindyJean
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Feb 18 '03
9:44 am PST
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Your story.... (Reply to this comment)
by gaelkm
....made me cry too...God Bless and I hope he can come home to you both soon.
~gael
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Feb 18 '03
9:07 am PST
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