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You never had a chance
by piglet2061 | Nov 02 '03
Sometimes the gift of life is hard to open

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I, too, was fed tainted baby formula (Reply to this comment)
by jrepairguy
First of all, I was born and raised in Northeast Ohio, just like the boy described in this post, titled, "You never had a chance". I was fed a baby formula called NeoMulsoy that was later dicovered to be contaminated with a fluoride-based pesticide from the late 1960's-early 1970's. I have had ADHD, behavioral issues, and learning disabilities all my life, which have kept me from getting ahead in my adult life, as I just couldn't "get" mathematics in high school or college, forcing me to eventually give up on my dreams and drop out of college. I was also constantly plagued by severe gastrointestinal symptoms as well, including nausea, vomiting, diarrhea, etc. As a kid, I was also pumped full of Ritalin, too. All of these things have lead me to anger, at times extreme; I have also always been a very depressed person and no antidepressant has ever really helped. I have been plaugued by seizures and weird fainting spells throughout my life as well, along with being a lifelong insomniac. I was recently diagnosed with "Borderline Personality Disorder", which really does sound like me when I researched it, but my dilemma is this: all my life, my parents have blamed ME for all of these problems, telling anyone who would listen that I was a "bad seed" and just an overall miserable, chronic crybaby as an infant who grew into a dysfunctional adult. They have always been very quick to deny that anything else could have caused these problems; they have always come across as fearful that anyone would blame them for these things, perhaps like having been the ones who fed me this formula, despite the fact that they couldn't have possibly known about the contamination at the time. Indeed, I do not blame them for this, but I do think that this baby formula was very culpable and more than likely was/is the culprit. I have 3 other brothers, and none of them have had these issues, and of course, none of them were fed NeoMulsoy.....just me. I suppose my main question is, could this contaminated formula really have caused most or even all of these things? I'd just like to know; not so I can assign blame to anyone or anything, for I know that we all need to take responsibility for our actions in life, but I just feel the need to know, for my own sanity. Does anyone out there know where I can find out more about this tainted baby formula and its terrible effects upon the health of the babies who consumed it?
Dec 23 '10
7:00 am PST

"I'm Sorry" Isn't Enough (Reply to this comment)
by bethesdalily
I wish I could pick up the pieces and fit them back together, take those fragments of your heart and mold them into piece. I can't, so I will pray to the One who can. I can't even begin to imagine... I'm reading this review late, and I know that several years have passed, but I know that this sort of thing always lingers in the back of the mind. You and your family are in my prayers.

God Bless,

Nicole
Dec 12 '10
10:39 am PST

. . . (Reply to this comment)
by holy_diver
Sweet Jesus. There is nothing I can say.

I sometimes wonder if God and the Devil are one in the same. Two bipolar personalities without the firm grasp of reality that many people credit him for. I see so many wonderful people, with hearts of gold, get dealt unworkable cards. And every time I do, I feel myself overcome with rage and sorrow. But never could I imagine what it would be like to loose a brother like this.

I can't imagine words from a stranger being helping - but I'm so sorry.

- Chris
Jun 22 '07
9:55 am PDT

Ohhhhhh.. (Reply to this comment)
by LILvoyce
I am sooo sorry.

-barbara
Jun 12 '04
1:22 am PDT

This is so touching... (Reply to this comment)
by kelly60
God bless you
Feb 04 '04
5:20 am PST

Re: Oh my goodness... (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thank you so much for viewing my poem and commenting on how it touched you. I still miss my brother very much but talking about him and still feeling his presence is very helpful.

Thanks,

Peggy:)
Feb 01 '04
1:11 pm PST

Oh my goodness... (Reply to this comment)
by denasalazar
I am sitting here in tears after reading your poem. I am so sorry for your loss.
Jan 23 '04
6:30 pm PST

Re: You have written .......... (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
thank you so much for your thoughts and blessings, that really means so much to me.

Peggy
Dec 02 '03
3:43 pm PST

You have written .......... (Reply to this comment)
by MariaLynn
a very touching tribute to your little bother. I am so sorry for your loss. May God always give you peace.

Blessings
Reva
Nov 25 '03
6:41 pm PST

Re: Oh Peggy~ (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Deborah,

Thanks for your prayers and understanding I thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Thanks for the guardian angel comment..I really loved that:)

Peggy
Nov 10 '03
4:14 pm PST

Oh Peggy~ (Reply to this comment)
by ruby950
Your title told me that this poem wasn't going to have a happy ending. How sad for your entire family. I am sure that you don't ever gt over something like this. Hopefully, with time and prayer, your heart will heal. You now have your own private angel! Now, that's a nice thought!

My best,
Deborah~
Nov 09 '03
6:48 am PST

Re: I am very sorry (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thank you for stopping by, I am glad you enjoyed my poem. I tried to sum up my brother Mark's life the best way I could.

Peggy:)
Nov 08 '03
8:16 pm PST

Re: Beautiful Tribute (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Wendy,

Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate the concern everyone here at Epinions has expressed to me. I am very moved by that!

Peggy:)
Nov 08 '03
8:13 pm PST

Re: There's not much I can add... (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thank you very much for taking the time to read my poem about my brother Mark, he was very special to me.

Peggy:)
Nov 08 '03
8:11 pm PST

Re: $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
A.J.,

I'm sure you are right about the money and ignoring the situation concerning the baby formula, after all isn't that the American way?

The baby formula was Neo Mul Soy made by Syntex.

Here is a link to an article about it...

http://www.westonaprice.org/children/children.html

Thanks for reading about Mark, I will always share his story with others.

Peggy:)
Nov 08 '03
8:10 pm PST

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ (Reply to this comment)
by AinsleyJo
And here they go closing down those places that help people to buy Canadian prescription drugs because they "might" be "dangerous" but probably looked the other way for a long time re: that formula until too many reported experiences caused them to deal with it publicly.

I could be wrong, but I think that it's a case of money talking.

Keep sharing Mark's story with others, because who know how many other brother Marks and sister Peggys are out there in need of hope!

Love,
AJ :o)
Nov 08 '03
6:34 pm PST

By the way... (Reply to this comment)
by knotheadusc
I think beagles rule, too.
Nov 05 '03
11:52 am PST

There's not much I can add... (Reply to this comment)
by knotheadusc
That others haven't already written. This is a gorgeous work of art. We're all very blessed to have shared in your beautifully written personal insights about your brother. Thank you.
Nov 05 '03
11:48 am PST

Beautiful Tribute (Reply to this comment)
by wifeofvolsfan
What a nice tribute to your brother. It was so sad...so touching...so moving...I'm so sorry for your loss. I can feel your pain when reading.

God Bless,
Wendy
Nov 05 '03
9:44 am PST

I am very sorry (Reply to this comment)
by msmorvay
for your loss. This was a lovely tribute to your brother.
Nov 05 '03
8:17 am PST

Thanks (Reply to this comment)
by youguyfriday
for being so vulnerable and open. lovely poem and tribute to your brother. I am sure it will help many others to heal from loss also.
Nov 04 '03
7:41 pm PST

I'm very sad to read this... (Reply to this comment)
by gaelkm
...it's very hard to read and I'm sure very tough to write. God Bless you and God Bless Mark.

~gael
Nov 04 '03
7:19 pm PST

Thank you ........ (Reply to this comment)
by Susie-34668
so much for sharing with us.

Hugs,
Susie.
Nov 04 '03
7:06 pm PST

I can't imagine.... (Reply to this comment)
by kokladj
how hard it was for you to write this because it was truly heartbreaking to read.. In fact, I'm having a difficult time finding the right words to express how moving and beautifully written it was.. Your brother was a very lucky man to have a sister as compassionate and caring as you, and I can only offer my sincerest condolences to you and your family..

Take Care,
Melanie
Nov 04 '03
4:03 pm PST

Errrrrrr (Reply to this comment)
by andymcf
Wow!

Andrew
Nov 03 '03
6:25 pm PST

Very, very moving piece.. (Reply to this comment)
by Mimi369
..I could feel the roller coaster of emotion through out this loving tribute to your brother. My heart goes out to you and your family as you continue to deal with your loss.

He sounded like a terrific guy and you, a terrific person for writing this!
God bless...
Mimi
Nov 03 '03
5:16 pm PST

Re: I am so sorry.... (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thank you Carol, it means so much to me to know that you were moved by my poem about Mark.

Thank you so much,

Peggy
Nov 03 '03
2:24 pm PST

Re: Beautiful (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Kathy,

Thanks for your kind comments and your hugs, I really needed it.

Peggy
Nov 03 '03
2:23 pm PST

Re: An EXTRAORDINARY expression--- (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thank you Gavia, I'm glad you were moved by my poem, thank you for commenting.

Peggy
Nov 03 '03
2:22 pm PST

Re: I know its so hard... (Reply to this comment)
by piglet2061
Thanks Jana, I know it wasn't about the family that he always had his problems but in hindsight you always wonder what you could have done differently.

Thanks for the hugs,

Peggy

Nov 03 '03
2:21 pm PST
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