Unrequited Love Songs- Third Mix

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The Bottom Line Hit me baby one more time.

OK, so "collecting" unrequited love songs is sort of a hobby of mine- as I've mentioned, they're quite rare, so I find it interesting to try to hunt down all those in existence. And I need somewhere to archive them, and I'm thinking that some other people out there seem to be interested in the subject, so...here's yet another mix.


She Hates Me by Puddle of Mudd

Yeah, it's mallcore, aka poser metal. And a lot of people say that this song is pretty much just a bunch of yelling and cursing. But...this is one of those songs that really affects me; every time I hear it, it makes me happy and I just want to sing along really loudly. For raw anger, you really can't beat it, and the lyrics definitely have a certain something.

Lyrics example:

I tried too hard
And she tore my feelings like I had none
And ripped them away

She took all I ever had
No sign of guilt
No feeling of bad



It's Only Make Believe by Conway Twitty

It's classic pop by a singer who later turned to country music. The melody is very plain, and you can definitely tell it's from a long-ago era, but the lyrics say it all.

Lyrics example:

My heart I can't control
You rule my very soul
My only prayer will be
That someday you'll care for me
But it's only make believe



Heartfelt by The Butchies

This an alternative rock song that drips with angst, so it's good for those darker moods.

Lyrics example:

I've been walking around asleep
Thinking about you

There's absolutely no way I can tell you
What you mean to me



I Can't Be Your Friend by Rushlow

This is a great country song about being so in love with someone who is "just a friend" that it becomes too painful to remain in the friendship with them. When I hear this song, I think of the website "Agony and Rapture," which is a site dedicated to unrequited love.

Lyrics example:

And it's killing me to know you
Without having a chance to hold you
And all I wanna do is show you
How I really feel inside

I can't be your friend anymore



Electric Blue by Ice House

This song has a lot of personal significance to me. Kind of an interesting thing- this is the first song I ever heard that reminded me of my unrequited love, and only *after* it made me think of that person and I paid a little more attention to the lyrics did I realize that this song is actually one of the rare songs that really is specifically about unrequited love.

Lyrics example:

If a boy had a chance
A chance with someone like you
Are you gonna break his heart
Let him cry for the moon

Oh I had a dream
For a moment I believed it was true
Though I'd have given anything
Just to be there with you

I can see that it may be just a vision of you
Standing here waiting as I'm breaking in two
On my knees, help me, baby, tell me what can I do



Change of Heart by Cyndi Lauper

Yeah I was going to try to lay off the 80's pop this time since I was so heavy on it in the last mix, but I had to include this one. All of Cyndi's hits were great songs with really catchy tunes, and this one is an "I'll wait for you forever" type of unrequited love song.

Lyrics example:

Here I am
Just like I said I would be
I'm your friend
Just like you think it should be

I bide my time
Waiting for your change of heart



Mr. Johnson's Head by Insane Clown Posse

Yes, this is a psychedelic rap song which is heavy on the cursing and is about a kid who decapitates his teacher, so it may not be for everybody. Also, the main subject of this song isn't unrequited love- the two main subjects are the Eurocentric way that history is taught in American schools, and the plight of the outcast whom no one notices or cares about. But unrequited love is definitely in there at the beginning, and also I think the whole outcast theme goes hand in hand with unrequited love.

Also, maybe it's just me, but I find it hysterically funny to refer to the person you like who doesn't like you back as "the b*tch that I love."

Lyrics example:

I'm staring at the freak
That I know I'm in love with
But she don't even know my name
It's always been the same



Bobby's Girl by Marcie Blane

We're going to close out with a cute little teenybopper song from the 50's that makes people mad because of how sexist it is!

There's just one thing I've been wishing for
I wanna be Bobby's girl
That's the most important thing to me
And if I was Bobby's girl
What a faithful, thankful girl I'd be

Each night I sit at home
Hoping that he will phone



So there you have it, another collection of unrequited love songs. I hope you've enjoyed this vital information about musical culture! Or something like that.

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