HomeKids & FamilyLocks & GuardsWhat Should I Know About Adoption?
Member Advice Summary
Annabelle's Story. No More Rumbling Tummy or Grubby Feet
by Freak369 | Dec 08 '04
Adoption is such a sterile word ...

Return to opinion



Have something to say?
Write your own comment on this review!
Comments on Annabelle's Story. No More Rumbling Tummy or Grubby Feet" (18 total)  
  Comment Sorted by
Date Written
Re: Good luck (Reply to this comment)
by sblaydes, sblaydes is a Lead on Epinions in Kids & Family
Hehehe...

I'm sure that Ned1 would be more than happy to send you some Barbies! Hey! I'll be happy to send you some Barbies. :)

Hope that the move is going well...


Suzanne
Jan 02 '05
4:43 am PST

Good luck (Reply to this comment)
by jnbmoore
My daughter's best friend (age six) is in the same boat with mom (dad is remarried).

I'd adopt her in a second but mom has custody and SRS hasn't done anything yet...


Good luck

So when's the baby shower? Maybe Ned1 could send you some barbies
Dec 31 '04
10:25 pm PST

@ (Reply to this comment)
by pranapana
The only thing freaky about you is how freakishly wonderful you are.

I was tearing up all over the place.

Thank you so much for sharing this with us - it really warms the heart to know people like you exist - you don't just talk about being a good person, you actually are one. I feel a little sorry for Anabelle's biological father - pride comes before a fall eh.

How lucky Anabelle is to have found your family - big brothers and a loving mother who really really cares,

my heart goes out to you and your loves ones,
Renee
Dec 11 '04
8:03 pm PST

Re: Re: You know... (Reply to this comment)
by sblaydes, sblaydes is a Lead on Epinions in Kids & Family
Oh Freak... I am so there with you on the dating thing! You and I will just have to be there for one another...

Suzanne

p.s. And yes, I do have gray hairs!!! Sigh...
Dec 11 '04
9:57 am PST

I think (Reply to this comment)
by cathyjones
the beauty of this story is your family and Annabelle chose each other to complete the family. Congratulations!

Cathy
Dec 10 '04
5:18 pm PST

Thanks for writing this (Reply to this comment)
by KMINER, KMINER is an Advisor on Epinions in Kids & Family
it showed me a side to your life I would have never known otherwise -

what a great thing you are doing ... Kimm
Dec 10 '04
2:31 pm PST

Well, mom to be again (Reply to this comment)
by Annie_Crane
congratulations!!! Annabelle is apparently where she was meant to be all along. I've got to admit that I was a little disappointed to read that she doesn't like Barbies. I'm looking forward to that age. My first daughter hated them too. Pity, I still love them.

It's great that you two are together. I wish you the best of everything.

God Bless,
AnnieC
Dec 09 '04
11:27 pm PST

This is the adoption story (Reply to this comment)
by AliventiAsylum
I love to hear. No parents spending thousands of dollars to buy a baby... Just a child who needs a parent, pure and simple. No one is profiting, no one is being coerced. Bless you for your truly generous spirit!

Patti
Dec 09 '04
2:33 pm PST

Re: You know... (Reply to this comment)
by Freak369, Freak369 is an Advisor on Epinions in Kids & Family
I guess the holidays, my hormones and a few other factors led to me being a little wishy washy on this one. Annabelle is a great kid that doesn't really care what kind of toys she has to play with or having the latest fad in clothing. All she wants is her Cartoon Network, some peanuts [I swear she is going to turn into a peanut one of these days] and milk. Now sure how I am going to handle the whole dating / boys thing ... in fact, I think I felt a few new gray hairs start to sprout when I typed that out.
Dec 09 '04
9:38 am PST

I've always believed... (Reply to this comment)
by CindyJean
I've always believed that 'family' had much less to do with biology than with love, and this just proves it.

Thank you for being the mother this little girl so badly needed and wanted. I feel for the father, but he made his bed. You could have walked away, but you didn't, and that's awesome.

We may not have much in common, but I admire what you are doing.

CindyJean
Dec 09 '04
9:01 am PST

You know... (Reply to this comment)
by sblaydes, sblaydes is a Lead on Epinions in Kids & Family
Just when I think you can't get any nicer... :)

Freak, you are amazing! Annabelle is one lucky girl to have you as her Mum. :)

Now, if this little girl stuff is throwing you a bit after all those boys... you just let me know. I have some experience in this area!!! (Hmm... note to myself, Annabelle needs a new Barbie.) ;)

Suzanne
Dec 09 '04
7:12 am PST

Oh my! (Reply to this comment)
by lambchops
It's difficult news, but also wonderful news for you. Girls are cool--I promise (and you should know, you're one yourself!)

Congratulations, it's a girl!
Shelly.
Dec 09 '04
3:50 am PST

:o) (Reply to this comment)
by brooklynsmum
Congratulations to you and Annabelle! It sounds as though you are both lucky to have found each other. Best of luck with the move and thanks for sharing your story. The world needs more people like you!

Shawna
Dec 08 '04
9:05 pm PST

CONGRATULATIONS! (Reply to this comment)
by marybatson
What a terrific person you are, and how wonderful that your boys will know what it's like to have a sister. God bless you and that special little girl!

Mary :)
Dec 08 '04
8:07 pm PST

Thanks... (Reply to this comment)
by mmcphee
for sharing such a touching story!
Dec 08 '04
6:23 pm PST

Freak Mama (Reply to this comment)
by marytara, marytara is a Lead on Epinions in Kids & Family
I remember when you first started watching Annabelle and the shock of having a little girl around. Wow how those days have changed, eh?

Besides she is my kinda girl who doesn't like Barbie but likes Hello Kitty!

She can come over to my place and play anytime :)

~MT
Dec 08 '04
6:14 pm PST

Wow.... (Reply to this comment)
by Lisa_J
You are an incredible woman! Your soon to be daughter is ever so blessed to have you and your family. Thanks for taking the time to share all of this. And... thank you for being you - for making to difference, for sacrificing, for enduring, for... well... being you.

My best....
Lisa
Dec 08 '04
5:41 pm PST

Nice happy ending (Reply to this comment)
by bonniesayers
I knew what the outcome would be by the second paragraph, like a Hallmark or Lifetime movie.

Good luck with the move to the East Coast. Is the move related to getting out of CA or a career change?

Enjoy the snow!

Bonnie
Dec 08 '04
3:52 pm PST