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Kristenth's forty thoughts to live by.
by Granniemose | Nov 13 '06
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Re: Hey everyone..... (Reply to this comment)
by millinocket
Thank you so much, Jude, for letting us know that Virginia is well! We miss her, but understand that sometimes life takes people in a different direction. When you speak to her, give her our love and let her know she is missed.

Thanks again for the update!!!

Sue
Mar 09 '09
9:54 am PDT

Re: Hey everyone..... (Reply to this comment)
by kamel622

Oh Jude this is SO good to read. I'm so happy to hear that Virginia is alive and kicking. I do wish she'd return to this community but everyone has to do what feels right for them.

Thank you so much for alerting us to Virginia's life standing. I wish you well and hope that soon you'll be able to return and write as well. You are both missed!!!

Blessings....kath
Mar 06 '09
4:38 am PST

Hey everyone..... (Reply to this comment)
by artbyjude
I don't know why Mom isn't responding ; she just doesn't use her computer much for communication since she went to live with my brother. Last year she had a quadruple bypass, and this year she has had a few more health problems requiring attention: she had her other knee replaced, and a long recurring infection was the latest problem requiring surgery and a problem with fainting and henceforth falling, which she might have surgery to correct: It is a matter of opening the carotid arteries so she gets enough blood upstairs.

Sorry I can't tell you more; she doesn't talk to me much anymore and my brother doesn't talk to me at all.It kind of breaks my heart that she has left this community that always meant so much to her, and all the friends she has made there. This is her new e-mail address....gingy22@tds.com. Maybe you'll have more luck if you try to contact her directly.

I would like to say I'm sorry for this absence of info, but her life is very controlled in her new home, with people who don't always appreciate her talent for writing or her genuine warmth and compassion. This is her choice though, so let me assure you that she is alive and kicking, and pretty much her old self. She is not deteriorating mentally, I don't think, and women in her (our) family usually live well into their nineties. Her grandmother lived and was "with it" until she died in her sleep at 104 years of age.

Good luck trying to contact her. I can give you her cell phone number if you really want it, but you will have to get that from me personally...I won't put it out on the net.

I remember you all as well, and don't have any excuses for being gone other than I have had my own problems to deal with and I don't have a lot of time or inspiration to write anymore. In fact I can't even afford to rent movies to review, but it doesn't mean I have forgotten any of you.

Bless you all for the waves of caring and good vibes you send in her direction. I know it helps.

Love

Jude Paxton (her daughter)


Mar 05 '09
7:47 am PST

Re: The Fez Crew Wants you (Reply to this comment)
by garym
yup.
Miss you
Mar 04 '09
6:12 pm PST

The Fez Crew Wants you (Reply to this comment)
by lacechenault
c'mon

http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=52754657284

Join us
Feb 24 '09
6:44 pm PST

Excellent thoughts, but... (Reply to this comment)
by prapresident
Virginia,
WHERE R U? I fear the worst; I know you wouldn't just disappear. We are all hoping to hear from you again. I don't know if you'll get this, but if you didn't know, Lorace passed. Hope to hear from you again soon.

Kev
Dec 29 '08
1:11 pm PST

Re: Re: Much Wisdom, Virginia. (Reply to this comment)
by garym
Ditto,

Love you,

Gary
Mar 16 '07
3:03 pm PDT

Re: Much Wisdom, Virginia. (Reply to this comment)
by lorace
...
Virginia, WHERE ARE YOU?? We're all missing you and can't seem to get our email through to you.

So many persons have written me to see if I know where/how you are...and I don't. And I'm really worried and so are they.

Much love and concern,

Lorace
Mar 16 '07
10:30 am PDT

Much Wisdom, Virginia. (Reply to this comment)
by macresarf1
Sorry, I took so long to catch up with this one.

Alex
Mar 15 '07
9:24 am PDT

Virginia (Reply to this comment)
by Mom2TyZick
This is a wonderful list and it helps to be reminded of them.

Loved each one, especially the last :)
Feb 25 '07
8:48 am PST

What You Mean To Me... (Reply to this comment)
by the_gas_man
Hi Virginia,

We haven't spoken for awhile but I just want you to know I still love your views. I went away to spend my time on what seemed to be important things, issues and people, however, I still checked in, now and then, to read your thoughts and I always appreciated both your candid views and your comments to my reviews.

Your encouragement helped me go on and your encouragement helped people who wrote to me to say they had saved themselves from illness and possibly death. I've received hundreds, and possibly thousands, of emails over the years, from people who have removed ventless heaters, or refused to buy them or who questioned their spouses and relatives for having one. The war against them is being won, one house at a time and I think your support was partially crucial to my continued fight against them.

So whatever is happening in your life today, let me say, I feel a better person for having known you, even only through this website and I wish you and yours the best for 2007.

Good people are sometimes rare to find and even harder to keep close, it seems.

Regards,
Gasman
Jan 10 '07
5:33 pm PST

With your wit and wisdom... (Reply to this comment)
by mike.holmes
...you could write one hundred "rules" to live by. I've been missing your kind comments and reviews but I saw your note that you'll catch up. I was impressed with this list. Might try one myself although the joker in me would like to do one by my old falter ego, Jed P. Fuddplucker.
Nov 30 '06
7:41 am PST

yup (Reply to this comment)
by garym
Hi Virginia,
What I`d pay for a pair of Keds. Actually not much, unless I mugged a Bolivian transvestite with shallow deep pockets. But if I were a rich man, I`d dump the fiddle, jump off the roof and go straight to EBay, then to ER to mend the sprained ankle I got jumping off the roof.
Keds. You have great taste, AND you`re less filling. Just a bit of "lite humor" there.


Your Arthur
Nov 29 '06
1:44 pm PST

Great list, but... (Reply to this comment)
by davidp24
...I disagree with #6. I would much rather have harsh words spoken to me than being slashed with a knife. Unkind words to me would roll off me like water off a duck's back. But being struck by a knife - as Borat would say "Not very nice!!"
Nov 29 '06
5:47 am PST

OK... (Reply to this comment)
by lyoness913
I do confess I LOVE bright blue icing on birthday cakes. I always request blue icing.. I am glad you're back and I hope the move went smooth!!
Love,
Summer
Nov 27 '06
10:11 am PST

Hey Grannie... (Reply to this comment)
by faithforever
I loved your forty rules, especially the one about life beginning at forty. Missed hearing from you - Hope all is well with you and God Bless you... Gina
Nov 25 '06
5:00 am PST

@[xxxx]§::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::> (Reply to this comment)
by flamepillar
“Never measure the height of a mountain until you have reached the top. Then you will see how low it really was”

I LOVE it!!!
Nov 23 '06
6:00 am PST

Welcome Back, Wise Old Lady! (Reply to this comment)
by AinsleyJo
Your forty bits of wisdom are a total delight!

As for the difference between the prices on the shelves and up at the check-out, my mom (another great 1922 model) has noticed this, too--and she never hesitates to let them know! LOL

Blue icing is wonderful. It pretty much all tastes alike anyway. It's just white icing with a dye-job.

Maybe, you can sweet-talk 29th_Candidate into returning to the neighborhood...

Cheers!
AJ :-)
Nov 22 '06
4:14 pm PST

:) (Reply to this comment)
by Barefooter
Love this! I'm printing it out and sticking it on my bulletin board in the office. :)

Karen
Nov 22 '06
6:20 am PST

Thank you so much for all the ... (Reply to this comment)
by popsrocks

...words of wisdom.

Hey, If life begins again at 40 then I'm a teenager again!! Very cool and fun too.

Thanks, You're the greatest.

Phil
Nov 21 '06
6:21 am PST

Hey you're back! (Reply to this comment)
by jankp
Fantastic to read your life lessons. Kristina must've loved it too. I agree that watching a sunset is a highlight to the day. Hope you know about the new features on the site, go to Member Center if you don't. You can subscribe to reviewers that way.

Jan
Nov 20 '06
12:37 am PST

Re: So many important things to remember.... (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
Regina - Thank you very much. Your kindness is appreciated more than you can ever know. I am having trouble getting started again on Epi. I am a computer dummy, and am trying to learn how to navigate this new carrier- also I am no longer getting notifications and am trying to figure out a way to let them know it, and to put me back on. If it were not for people like you I would probably throw up my hands in dispair.

Virginia
Nov 19 '06
6:40 pm PST

Re: Re: So right! (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
Doc - Now you know darn well that any nearly fifty individual is special with or without teeth. Especially when they are as special as you are, and have been through so many physical problems. Heck, we would still love you if you had vampire teeth and two little hard horns on your head - you would still be our funny, fun lovin', friendly Doc. The white things in your mouth (teeth) are not nearly as important as the funny, sympathetic, honest words that come out of your mouth, and you can take that to the bank

Virginia
Nov 19 '06
6:36 pm PST

Re: nice to know (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
Jude - I'm giving it my best shot. Hope you have a great Thanksgiving in Gatlinberg. Karen,
Derek, Philip and Katie are talking about driving up for Thanksgiving or at least for the Thanksgiving week end. Karen said that if she comes, she will definitely want to see you.

Mom







Nov 19 '06
6:30 pm PST

Re: Ginny -- (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
Hi Caro - Thanks, sweetie. Some my my school mates used to call me Ginny, and a boy I dated way back in the dark ages called me Ginny - and I loved it - but my Mom disapproved of nick names. My grandfather was about the only one who dared to over-rule her, and he called me Gingy. I thought it fitting to honor him by using his nick name as my Email name. Bytheway, I love you too.

Virginia
Nov 19 '06
6:24 pm PST

Re: I have adopted (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
Oh Barbara - I do indeed think of you as my very good friend. I thank you very much - Love you.

Virginia
Nov 19 '06
6:16 pm PST

Re: Warm smiles... (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
To Sunni - Thank you, Sunni. I can't think of anything that would give me more pleasure than to be your grannie, even if it might mean I would have to arm wrestle your real grandma. You are always a sweet heart - and I love you.

Grannie
Nov 19 '06
6:12 pm PST

Re: So right! (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
To Sue - Thank you - it is really great to be back. I am having trouble, though. I was just beginning to get pretty good at AOL, and now I am trying to learn a whole new method with a different carrier. Also, Epi doesn't send me a notification list any more - so I have to try to figure out a way to get them to do it. So I am really not back yet - not all the way. "I'm jist soo confused".

Thank you very much for the RRandC.

Virginia
Nov 19 '06
5:40 pm PST

Re: You are full of wisdom Virginia! (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
To Leigh Ann -

You are so right. Good listening seems to be rapidly becoming a lost art. And I am just as guilty of failing to listen as the next guy. I also fail to read all of the directions on a package, and then bemoan the fact that the recipe fails or the mechanical item doesn't work.
I did try a cut and paste, though, and for once it worked. I am so proud.

Grandma


Nov 18 '06
4:48 am PST

Re: 40.... (Reply to this comment)
by Granniemose
To Kathy -

Thank you, Kathy. You are always there to give a friendly boost. I know that your day care kids will say please, and thank you. I'll bet you have found several books that tell the importance of simple manners, if I know you. Which is only one of the many reasons I have for lovin' you.

Virginia
Nov 18 '06
4:44 am PST
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