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Talyseon's Top Ten Things To Hate.
by talyseon | Feb 20 '09
I could say blame Lyoness913, but its all me.

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Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by DavidK93
I agree that legalizing marijuana (and other drugs, for that matter) would immediately curtail huge amounts of drug violence, and I would fully support such a policy. However, the claim that pot is "responsible for exactly ZERO deaths" is a bit naive. Even though it is true that marijuana itself doesn't directly cause deaths through its chemistry, as alcohol and cigarettes do, plenty of people still die in pot-driving accidents and because of other stupid decisions that they or someone else made while high. Any substance that alters cognitive function has the potential to cause harm by this mechanism.

--David
Apr 22 '09
2:57 am PDT

Re: Here is number Eleven.... (Reply to this comment)
by dianapinions
I enjoyed reading this, and agree with nearly everything you wrote.

However, I am "guilty" of your number eleven, as quoted below. As I have major responsibilities and other time commitments in my life, I read only sporadic reviews on Epinions that are of particular interest. I appreciate everyone who reads my stuff, though. We can chat about this further, if you want to.

My lack of reading is certainly nothing personal.

Diana





"...People who are in my email queue, but who have not rated anything of mine in MONTHS!"
Mar 12 '09
11:52 pm PDT

Urghh.. (Reply to this comment)
by lyoness913
I hate 'perfect kids' and I absolutely hate people who quote the Bible to defy sexuality. Screw them!!

;)

Summer
Mar 12 '09
11:14 am PDT

Re: Re: Re: Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
I don't think that we could organize a personal responsibility campaign; human beings don't work that way. But if it were a perfect world, it would solve the problem.

As it is, the mayor of Juarez has sent his family to hide in America for their protection. He has been receiving death threats from the drug cartels.

These cartels are of course responsible for their own actions. However, every time you light up a joint, you become responsible as well. That is the thing; there is enough responsibility to go around. I am sick and tired of people who scream "Pot doesn't hurt anyone!" It does. Not because it is an evil drug; Personally, I figure it is about on the same level as alcohol, but because it IS illegal, and there is big money to be made supplying it. Even if you get your supply from a college kid growing it in a basement, you are contributing to the problem that is killing DEA agents, and the people of Juarez.

Talyseon.
Feb 25 '09
7:30 am PST

Re: Thoughts (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
Of course these things are open to interpretation, but "he loved Jonathan with a love surpassing the love of women." I think that is a fairly impressive statement.

On my profile page is a link to a book called "What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality." by Father Daniel Helminiak. I highly recommend it if you wish to pursue a deeper understanding.

Talyseon.
Feb 25 '09
7:20 am PST

Re: Re: Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by vicfar
Fair enough. I am all for personal responsibility. I think Chad was speaking about a realistic strategy: limiting consumption hasn't worked, and filling jails with marijuana users and small-time dealers is an incredibly incompetent approach to solving the problem.

It would NEVER occur to me to be mad at pot users for the current disaster. I am mad at how US authorities are dealing with the problem, i.e. with utmost incompetence, or perhaps with malice.

Vic
Feb 24 '09
3:05 pm PST

Thoughts (Reply to this comment)
by bethesdalily
First, allow me to say that I am thoroughly impressed with all of these lists and intend to create one of my own today. I agree, by the way, that cell phones are dreadful annoyances. Particularly disturbing are those who text while engaged in a conversation with me. "i luv u" is certainly less important than my "Did you know that abridged books have no value?"

I did want to comment on gay relationships. To the best of my knowledge, David and Jonathan were not engaged in one. Many cite the idea that they embraced one another and wept during a difficult time, but could this not have been a unique, Middle Eastern way of showing support? It seems that many men in the Bible were less emotionally inhibited than American men are, so I am not quite certain that there is a basis for assuming that David and Jonathan shared the sort of relationship that you are talking about. I would be interested in hearing your thoughts, though.

Nicole
Feb 24 '09
7:10 am PST

Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by texas-swede
Chad,

I thought it was quite obvious that Talyseon was referring to personal responsibility under the current circumstances, and not drug policy. With that in mind his point was perfectly logical and correct. You did not read his statment very well.

I also think that some Americans have a quite irresponsible attitude towards drugs (compared to Swedes and others). Laws and restrictions cannot change that, but that does not mean that personal responsibility does not matter.

In addition, your statement "you sound like a Republican d-bag.." was the most disrespectful statement I've seen so far on epinions.
Feb 23 '09
8:22 pm PST

Re: Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
What you say is true. But I am only addressing the situation as it exists in America, and what it is doing to Mexico.

I have no illusions that my words will change the world. When it comes down to it, Abstinance until Marriage is also the ideal way to deal with teenage pregnancy, and I have no illusions it will EVER work...human nature is human nature.

But what I am saying is people who say, "all I do is a little pot...I am not responsible for the drug wars in Mexico"...are delusional. They ARE responsible. More responsible than any other group, because they are the biggest group.

Talyseon.
Feb 23 '09
2:50 pm PST

Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
That's the point Chad. Pot IS illegal. It IS big business for drug cartels, and people ARE being killed to maintain the supply.

That is what I am talking about. Maybe it should be legalized. That is another topic for another time. Right now, it IS illegal, and THERE IS BLOOD ON THAT DRUG. Take responsibility. If you will look THAT is what I am b*tching about.

"No single raindrop beleives it is responsible for the flood."

Talyseon.
Feb 23 '09
2:41 pm PST

Re: You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by vicfar
Chad is correct. And let's not forget that much of the weed consumed in Europe or Japan is homegrown and does not support any drug traffickers. I believe more than 50% of weed consumed in Holland is homegrown (Nederwiet), so the situation isn't quite that simple.

In addition, illegal drug traffic is a great business that interfaces with legal markets through corrupt bankers, politicians and secret services (see Whiteout by Alexander Cockburn), and there are deeper reasons than irresponsible consumption that help explain why the war on drugs will never be won (and isn't meant to be won) using the current strategy.

Vic
Feb 23 '09
1:22 pm PST

You've been suckered, too.. (Reply to this comment)
by Chad9976
Regarding your last point: you sound like d-bag Republican saying cut off the source or the demand. Nope, that method's been tried for upwards of a century now.

The definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again expecting different results.

We can end the drug war TOMORROW: all we have to do is legalize marijuana. 90% of all drug users just use pot. You legalize it the drug war ends. And this crap about it being a "gateway" drug is just that.

I'd much rather have the money go into the hands of corporations than drug dealers and cartels.

But there is so much information out there about this issue, I'll let you research it yourself.

Or you can just keep reiterating the same logic that has failed for decades and decades and admit maybe it doesn't work.

In a country where tobacco and alcohol are perfectly legal, which we know beyond a shadow of a doubt have killed thousands if not millions of people, and yet marijuana, which is responsible for exactly ZERO deaths is still illegal - that is double-think of the highest order.

-Chad

Feb 23 '09
7:59 am PST

Great list! (Reply to this comment)
by cmuir
While I don't agree with each and every one we are all entitled to our own opinion. And should be allowed to do so!!

Cindi
Feb 22 '09
11:28 am PST

Re: Hmmm.... (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
Road Boulders are officially Number 14. Snooty people have a hard time attracting my notice, so they don't rate.

Talyseon.
Feb 22 '09
3:19 am PST

Hmmm.... (Reply to this comment)
by smiles33
I agree with your list and thought of 2 additional ones I would add to my list.

1. Oblivious drivers like "Road Boulders" (i.e., going 55 in the fast lane and totally oblivious to everyone passing you), Mergers who Don't Look (You seriously didn't see me?!?!), and Drivers w/Turn Blinker On for Miles.

2. Snotty people who think they're better just because of the car they drive/brands they wear/money they flaunt (especially when I know that I could afford those things but choose not to do so!)
Feb 21 '09
10:53 pm PST

Interesting selection (Reply to this comment)
by rmthunter
And of course, I agree with them. Even about PETA. (I fully understand your attitude: the goals might be laudable, but can we act like adults while trying to achieve them?)

I think I can boil the various comments on Bible thumpers down to one: I hate it when people don't indulge their curiosity, or worse, aren't curious to begin with and never bother to find things out for themselves. Yaaahh! makes me nuts.

Thanks -- entertaining, to say the least.
Feb 21 '09
6:38 am PST

Re: Re: Cool list! (Reply to this comment)
by toiletoctopus
Talyseon,

As for PETA it seems we are of the same mind. Yes throwing blood is a crime and they should be locked up for a long time.

As for hunting, I surprise a lot of people, because I only shoot what I eat. And I am more than uptight about making sure I only shoot ducks that are not anywhere near threatened. PETA is so screwed up, because these so called "do gooders" do more harm than good.

I love animals actually, and couldn't imagine abusing one. Just not part of my nature. There was a guy that was abusing his dog in our area, and he was going to shoot the dog. Well somehow he laid down the gun on the floor, and the dog accidentally stepped on the trigger, which ended up killing this moron. Score one for the dog..I loved that!

Mike
Feb 20 '09
4:45 pm PST

Cell phone usage (Reply to this comment)
by ddustyrose
...is a common peeve/rant, and I have to say it bugs me also! I've came close to being hit a time or two while people were yakking and not paying attention to people around them. A bluetooth is not that expensive...a human life on the other hand can't be replaced.

You had some great points!
Dusty
Feb 20 '09
4:37 pm PST

Re: Cool list! (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
I have no objections to the goals of PETA; only the methods. I want to prevent animal cruelty, but I also recognize that medical research has to come first. I eat meat, but I do not eat veal, for cruelty reasons.

Throwing blood on people wearing fur is terrorism, and I won't condone that. And all you have to do is watch 28 Days Later to see my veiw on freeing medical research animals.

Talyseon.
Feb 20 '09
1:51 pm PST

Re: Great Points (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
OMG yes! That is a definite twelve! I can't stand Holocaust denyers. I also have no time for the Moon Landing was a sound stage group.

The Holocaust was a defining moment for our species. We collectively turned our back on that sort of atrocity. If you deny the truth of the event, you deny the value of the lessons learned.

Thanks for weighing in.

Talyseon.
Feb 20 '09
1:44 pm PST

Great Points (Reply to this comment)
by andaryl
You make some great social observartions here. I especially agree on your religious issues. I'm not religious but have a greater understanding of what's in the bible than people who claim to be. Unlike many zealots, I have read it. And on #7, people who still tnik the holcaust is a myth.

Andrew
Feb 20 '09
1:28 pm PST

Here is number Eleven.... (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
...People who are in my email queue, but who have not rated anything of mine in MONTHS!

*grumble grumble grouse grouse*

Talyseon.
Feb 20 '09
1:02 pm PST

Duplication...... (Reply to this comment)
by talyseon
I have never had one duplicate before. Sorry for the inconvienence. I guess I REALLY hate these ten things.

(And I do.)

Talyseon.
Feb 20 '09
12:45 pm PST

Interesting (Reply to this comment)
by Penguinlady
And I agree with most of what you have listed, but you didn't include clarinets. I hate the clarinet, so that would definitely be on my list. Also mayonnaise.

Carry on...

Margaret
Feb 20 '09
10:27 am PST

Cool list! (Reply to this comment)
by shopaholic_man
I was checking this out on my cell phone on the commute home today, while blaring talk radio on my car stereo! Great list, I found myself agreeing with most of the things on your list. Seems cathartic too. I did take offense at your comment about PETA, since I am a member. I've been a Person Eating Tasty Animals since forever, and I am a barbeque sauce carrying member.

Dang, now I want to compile my own George Carlin like list!
Feb 20 '09
9:49 am PST

Good hate list! (Reply to this comment)
by texas-swede
I think I just read the same one twice, so I am posting my comment here too, in case the other one is deleted.

I think I agree with all your pet peeves, especially and fervently with number-(1).
Feb 20 '09
9:41 am PST

Now (Reply to this comment)
by toiletoctopus
Talyseon,

Don't you feel better now? This was a great thing started by Lyoness. Its helped so much.

I agree with you completely, and I'm so tired of this Christian nation B.S. and the Moral Majority Squad. I forgot where I saw it on Epinions, but I had to laugh when I saw the column about the bible and homosexuality. For instance, should I stone someone for this, should I kill someone for this as well? Totally hilarious, and shows how hypocritical the religious bigots are.

We are not a christian nation but a nation of many faiths, whether we want to or not believe in a higher power. The founding fathers would be upset how religion and government have become intertwined. I love the whackos that say my muslim and jewish friends are reading the wrong book, and that I should turn my back on them or try to convert them to save them and my soul. WTF?

Glad you found the bagpipes to your liking. But watch out for the following sheep!

Mike
Feb 20 '09
8:18 am PST