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I want my old mom back!!!
by Naomi7835 | Jan 24 '01
So if you are a caregiver to someone who has Alzheimer's, please get some support. It will help you and your loved one get through this disease.

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Being an entertainer/companion in a ALF...... (Reply to this comment)
by Susie-34668
I work with the elderly and hopefully put a smile on their faces.

The 'children' of the residents thank me all the time for making their lives brighter. To me this is not work but pure pleasure. I just wish I could help all the people in your situation. It is so hard.

Take care,
Susan.
Jun 24 '01
3:04 pm PDT

FROM THE HEART... (Reply to this comment)
by supernova7
Thank you so much for sharing with us all your experiences. My mother at 88 has a very clear mind yet cannot cope with her inabilities and weaknesses. THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH.
Apr 14 '01
4:30 am PDT

Great advice... (Reply to this comment)
by my2girls
my parents are dealing with this right now with my grandfather and it is hard. I think you have some great words of wisdom about dealing with a parent or relative with Alzheimers.

Allyson
Mar 08 '01
1:52 pm PST

Poignant and important (Reply to this comment)
by prettyinpink
This is a very poignant post. I commend you for sharing this difficult slice of your life. I'm glad you have a support group.

You give some very specific, important advice. Thank you -- while it doesn't apply to my family right now, it might in the future.

Blessings.
Feb 17 '01
7:50 pm PST

This was beautifully written (Reply to this comment)
by akaMum
My father is in the process of having his advanced dementia diagnosed as Alzheimer's. My friend's mother died of the disease and she said she felt that Alzheimers was like a "living death" - she had been grieving for her "real" mom for years. Terribly sad. This review has some excellent advice and offers so much.
Thanking for sharing your personal experience as tough as that must have been.
Carrie
Feb 09 '01
3:46 pm PST

What Wonderful Insights! (Reply to this comment)
by education1
Thanks for sharing. I'm sure this will help someone going through a similar situation.
Feb 03 '01
5:10 pm PST

Very Helpful in the Truest Sense (Reply to this comment)
by mike.holmes
I've lost my Mom and Dad but my wife still has her Mom and she might have problems like this too. Also, I'm an attorney who acts as Attorney-ad litem for people with Alzheimers and I have never read a better way to work with folks. Thank you for sharing.
Feb 02 '01
10:26 pm PST

Good points! (Reply to this comment)
by ten_angel
Alzheimer's disease at its best is difficult for the caregiver and you have given some wonderful insight into it. Thanks for a well written epinion. Deb
Feb 02 '01
9:58 pm PST

These are excellent pointers (Reply to this comment)
by Lark729_89
You did a fine job in helping others cope and knowing they are not alone. I thank you for submitting a very informative review. Bless you and your family.
Feb 01 '01
5:43 am PST

I know where your comin' from... (Reply to this comment)
by LonghornMan
I helped my Mom take care of my Grandmother for a year and a half until she died from cancer. The cancer was a field day compared to the Alzeimer's she was also afflicted with. She never knew who I was and denied I was her grandson because in her mind her grandson was still just a 12 year old little boy. All those who care for people cursed with Alzeimer's will stay in my prayers for the remainder of my life.
Jan 29 '01
5:06 pm PST

This was very thoughtful . . . (Reply to this comment)
by ed_grover
and very touching. Thanks for sharing.

I wrote a piece on aging and ageism that you might like to read. It's about how to treat OLD people before they get sick.

http://www.epinions.com/kifm-review-855-17193008-3A144AF7-prod2

EG
Jan 28 '01
10:36 am PST

Your writing is . . . (Reply to this comment)
by gungian
. . . informative and heartfelt.

Wishing you strength in this challenging ordeal.

Positive posting.

Write On!
Jan 26 '01
6:55 am PST

Very good review... (Reply to this comment)
by kamel622
...and wonderful advice for anyone caring for another.
I'm sure this is a difficult time, but you seem to be handling it the best way possible. God Bless you..and your Mom too. Peace be with you,
kath
Jan 25 '01
12:23 pm PST