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Original Question: What are the most effective ways of disciplining your child? Is spanking out of bounds?

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by arson83
Mar 11, 2000 Is Hitting Worth It? Yuh huh
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by Backtalk
Jun 18, 2000 A good switch is all you need
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by K_the_nut
Mar 12, 2000 Kids are not all the same
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by jsten
Aug 30, 2000 A Little Fear is Good
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by angelolife
Jun 6, 2000 Spare the rod Spoil the child?
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by bowlingqueen
Jan 8, 2001 Who Should Do It....
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by pooh22
Sep 21, 2000 Spanking?
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by Glitzy
Jul 10, 2000 Changing your Vocabulary to Guide your Child
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by Wisky
Apr 15, 2000 Take it from ME!
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by kdoran
Jun 22, 2000 Discipline hurts no matter how you get it.
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by Georgie_Rose
Mar 23, 2000 Who are we to judge?
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by Marquis
Jul 16, 2000 When Ryoko Doesn't Listen
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by ELIZABETH3347
Sep 6, 2000 DON'T DO THAT; KEYS TO DISIPLINE
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by patti_witcher
Feb 18, 2000 Kids Today
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by bippy20
Mar 31, 2000 spanking
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by hlarabie
Nov 28, 2000 JobOne
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by icesktr69
Feb 10, 2000 smacking kids is so wrong!
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by DKandZZ2
Apr 18, 2000 Do you like to be hit?I'm sure a child doesn't either.
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by missyshy
May 31, 2000 Watch out
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by angelolife
May 10, 2000 Getting to the heart of Behavior
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by 135797531
Oct 20, 2000 WHAT EVERY CHILD NEEDS
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by sager
May 3, 2000 All bark, no bite
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by noellemarie
Jun 4, 2000 To Spank or Not to Spank!
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by Budder
Jul 11, 2000 There are limits on spanking
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by heidi95842
Feb 25, 2000 pick your battles
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by Damil4real
Nov 10, 2000 Mothers should teach their children!
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by bmzgirl
Dec 4, 2000 "Spare the Rod?"
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by Danipunky
Feb 13, 2000 Spanking is abuse of power
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by posthoughts
Aug 17, 2000 The Rod of Discipline
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by alicja
Jul 18, 2000 NO to spanking! -edited
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by BeccaM
Feb 18, 2000 WHAT'S A PARENT TO DO?
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by PhoenixFlight
Jul 21, 2000 A Bar Of Soap For Your Grouchy Little One
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by mamatokailey
May 2, 2000 Every kid is different
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by SMITHSWOODSIDE
Jul 29, 2000 discipline is OK
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by sderka1
Mar 30, 2000 Talk to them!!
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by sweetcece
Apr 12, 2000 Thoughts on Lies
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by jjdkbarber
Apr 29, 2000 Is praise hurting your child?
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by Jmoney78
Jul 7, 2000 Let them know who's in charge
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by JoeAJoe
May 11, 2000 What to do when your child won't eat
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by bobyyy
Nov 11, 2000 LEARNING
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by erzulie95
May 7, 2000 spanking "TO DO OR NOT"
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by SYLPHAIRE
Jul 27, 2000 HOW TO TEACH NOT PUNISH
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by Pisces
Mar 25, 2000 Corporal Punishment is wrong!
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by angelolife
May 10, 2000 Discipline? Neglect? Abuse?
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by LissaJoy1
May 14, 2000 Spanking not ALWAYS a Necessity.
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by YolandaM
May 3, 2000 Should I spank Johnny?
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by Wishmakerr2
May 15, 2000 Times have Changed
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by mrj75
Jun 30, 2000 Disciplining is ok, but don't over do it.
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by littlefarmer
Apr 5, 2000 smack that hinny and don't be whinny!
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by tampatony
Apr 26, 2000 need a spanking
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by legaci
Jun 6, 2000 The Discipliner
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by CyberWriter
Jul 3, 2000 They'll do it too.
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by kystorm
Apr 17, 2000 No more stomping ( comment on datoken's NO MORE STOMPING TO HER ROOM)
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by to1oy
Dec 8, 2000 What's that?
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by fannie1
Mar 16, 2000 "Children and The Golden Rule"
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by Cheli1976
Apr 7, 2000 Spanking is not abuse
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by Cybernary
Jul 24, 2000 start at a young age
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by kenpatm1
Nov 24, 2000 The Spanking Debate
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by cladyred
May 10, 2000 Keeping Your Cool!
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by dewette
Mar 3, 2000 Spare Not the Rod
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by JudyinAL
Jun 17, 2000 Discipline is important!
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by PCMDRK1010
Jul 19, 2000 Too Mature Too Soon
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by Candies3
Mar 4, 2000 HELP
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by wilkeeze
Jul 11, 2000 From a Teen...
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by jessi182000
Apr 3, 2000 Right or Wrong
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by Bonnieandjerry
Dec 7, 2000 When nothing works!
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by MichelleKramer
Jun 1, 2000 Make Comments On The Good As Well As The Bad!
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by LittleBabyG
Oct 9, 2000 Children need to learn but please, hitting them wont help
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by Breezybaby
Apr 20, 2000 I agree but Disagree
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by Grammy4
Dec 12, 2000 Spanking
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by mlentz74
Aug 7, 2000 to spank or not to spank your child
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by Chan504
Jun 9, 2000 To spank or not to spank-a personal decision
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by jojo3
Jul 19, 2000 Spanking worked for me...
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by marnimom
Jun 1, 2000 who's raising your child?
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by lickenlover
Mar 26, 2000 Disciplining your child the right and wrong way!
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by TrueBlueAngel
Apr 7, 2000 In The Long Run...
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by kellycc
Sep 20, 2000 To Spank or Not to Spank
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by manderines
Jun 3, 2000 Spank or Sit
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by shirlena
Jul 15, 2000 You must agree
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by lovely_zelda
Feb 29, 2000 Back in my day...
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by aharp
Jun 30, 2000 Disciplining Your Child takes Love
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by childadvocate
Jul 10, 2000 spanking - hitting begets hitting
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by JYoung5330
Aug 19, 2000 Don't Spank, But Punish
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by Mo0M0o0MOO
Apr 27, 2000 Cencroship Is The Biggest Load of $***
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by ken989
Feb 9, 2000 R-E-S-P-E-C-T
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by danfit4life
Dec 4, 2000 What is right and what is wrong
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by sox
Feb 23, 2000 Discipling your child
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by Dreamlander
Mar 14, 2000 Disciplining my child based on his/her actions
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by malysa25
Dec 18, 2000 Do I spank my children?
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by AuntGlo
Jul 15, 2000 To spank or not to spank
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by AuntGlo
Jul 29, 2000 The whole truth from a mom who wishes she would have known more
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by leelou
Aug 10, 2000 Try to teach;not punish
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by Mohica
Jun 17, 2000 From a non-mother perspective
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by ceciltheme
Jun 15, 2000 They Are NOT Adults
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by drugged
Jul 13, 2000 drugged is gonna be okay
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by Miss_KimmyB
Feb 24, 2000 Why spank?
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by CyberWriter
Jul 12, 2000 Don't Slice and Dice!
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by Sharee5800
Jul 29, 2000 Don't Beat them! Teach them with love!
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by mep
Jul 15, 2000 Say what you mean, Mean what you say
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by jmckin84
May 3, 2000 A instant choice can turn into a life memory
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by Danipunky
Apr 4, 2000 Spanking abuse? Yep in my opinion it is!
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by alexis1695
Apr 18, 2000 How far is too far?
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by 0102
Aug 3, 2000 Be Positive
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by jlhensell
Feb 19, 2000 Hard to be a parent today
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by pregocrissy
May 15, 2000 OUT OF CONTROL OR IN CONTROL....\
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by Itsmyopinion
Feb 11, 2000 ouch!
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by hollyder
Jul 13, 2000 nothing wrong with discipline
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by noahtilsen
Apr 20, 2000 Beat Away
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by motherearth
Feb 16, 2000 with love
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by Lisatwinmom
Jun 8, 2000 Don't hit, love them.
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by Vnault7500
Apr 11, 2000 bodies are for hugs not hits
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by MichelleKramer
May 5, 2000 The How and Why
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by ladigrace
Mar 29, 2000 To Spank or Not to Spank
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by bboop123
Aug 7, 2000 Spanking out of Bounds? For Some..not others.
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by lisaharris
Feb 17, 2000 Grateful To Have Been Spanked
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by alweigel
Feb 16, 2000 SPANKINGS ARE WAY WRONG
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by tucker300
Aug 14, 2000 What is the right way and what is the wrong way
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by chellebelle
May 30, 2000 There is a Difference Between Spanking and Abusing a Child
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by angelolife
May 28, 2000 Sometimes we correct why and not what!
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by writer50
Apr 25, 2000 I can't remember the last time I had to
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by csharris
Feb 19, 2000 DISCIPLINING CHILDREN
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by annintenn
Feb 16, 2000 Not enough control
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by MissGladys
Jul 14, 2000 1-2-3 you're out...
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by tampabaygirl
Apr 18, 2000 What is "time out"?
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by moneyhoney
Feb 16, 2000 Spare the Rod Spoil the Child
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by Danipunky
Sep 5, 2000 Response to someone lol
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by KWinegar
Nov 9, 2000 Spanking is a no no
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by MCMamaJ
Mar 17, 2000 Discipline vs. Punishment...
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by karielle
Mar 29, 2000 The homecoming...
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by AuntGlo
Jul 15, 2000 alternative diciplines
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by smalltown
Sep 17, 2000 let the punishment fit the crime
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by Kassie
Mar 25, 2000 To Spank or Not To Spank
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by Sherry63
Jul 31, 2000 Spanking or Non?
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by THEbigdog
Feb 16, 2000 My two cents worth
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by littleloulou
Jul 15, 2000 Please, excuse me , thank you: are these obsolete manners???
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by hollyder
Jul 13, 2000 please and thank yous
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by TEDDID
May 10, 2000 There is a time and a place
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by MariaPope
May 17, 2000 Where are we headed?
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by mamakven
Apr 13, 2000 Spare the Rod? A secular slant
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by Erin2k
Jul 26, 2000 In between
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by KarenKay
Jun 21, 2000 Beat Your Kid?!
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by gmlbeanie
Feb 9, 2000 Say what you mean and mean what you say!
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by Mchelee
Jul 15, 2000 1 2 3
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by steph_tripp
May 31, 2000 Discipline means to teach not punish
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by ryansmommy
Apr 23, 2000 There are some kids I know who NEED a swat or two!
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by mom2emma
Jul 16, 2000 relaxation
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by klm81
Nov 7, 2000 What's A Mom To Do?
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by littleloulou
Jul 10, 2000 Spanking Doesn't Turn You Into a Serical Killer
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by NoMattrWht
Aug 23, 2000 The Penalty Box
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by fannie1
Aug 3, 2000 "Why Children Need Dicipline"
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by Cybernary
Aug 3, 2000 too much yelling doesn't accomplish anything
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by amygdala
Nov 6, 2000 One Size Fits All?
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by writer50
Jun 22, 2000 I had to say no!
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by Danipunky
Aug 1, 2000 Just because it works, doesn't make it right
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by loribagore
Apr 5, 2000 Discipline doesn't have to hurt
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by Gthomp1
May 31, 2000 It All Comes Down To the Individual Child
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by karrie_L
Apr 29, 2000 How Not To Be A Pushover Parent
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by jsd3
Mar 29, 2000 Don't be afraid of disciplining
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by smease
Feb 14, 2000 Gimee...Gimee....Gimee
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by mmahaney
Oct 23, 2000 "Because I said so!"
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by slammie
May 3, 2000 Pass the Tylenol.
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by KellyJeannie
Feb 17, 2000 Words can hurt.
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by CHERYL033
May 12, 2000 Discipline should be firm but Loving
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by jsupple
Apr 14, 2000 Discipline
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by rosie6349
Apr 14, 2000 "Rearing" a child
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by KKanMgsMom
Mar 29, 2000 Spanking Is Not The Answer
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by Elflin
Mar 25, 2000 My Choice, not yours
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by padycat
Apr 5, 2000 In response to danipunky review
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by CARLA.C
Mar 30, 2000 I spanked my kids when they were young.
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by Melayna
Aug 10, 2000 What happens if I do this wrong?
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by FunnyBufGirl
May 8, 2000 Sleep solutions?
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by jadeashlyn
Sep 8, 2000 Not just abuse but tragedy waiting to happen.
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by ByronFoxx
Dec 11, 2000 One tough job!
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by KellyJeannie
Feb 12, 2000 Stay calm
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by AmberM
Mar 3, 2000 How to raise a great child
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by Danipunky
Sep 6, 2000 I turned out okay?
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by weirdoos
Oct 29, 2000 WHEN SPANKING BECOMES ABUSE
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by littleb28
Feb 17, 2000 Each child is different!
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by MailAngels
Jul 14, 2000 When Time Outs Don't Work!
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by kathysue
Apr 24, 2000 What To Do When the Kids Break All Your Stuff,
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by flutterby77
Nov 16, 2000 Redirection-Time Out-Spanking-Grounding Choose your Method!
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by bwyckoff1
Nov 23, 2000 Time Out for Love
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by blimbach
Jun 2, 2000 Help!
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by TerresaMom
May 18, 2000 Physical Punishment
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by tinky2
Aug 10, 2000 Spank or Not to Spank?
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by CraigEgg
Feb 26, 2000 To spank or not to spank, That is the question?
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by LeeMo
Oct 14, 2000 Disciplining of a 2 year old
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by KylaPrkns
Nov 28, 2000 Who's the parent??
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by nicegirl31
Dec 28, 2000 You can't spank me !!
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by kaduncet
Sep 22, 2000 I hate you!!!!
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by poohgrl1o4
Dec 13, 2000 Replying to Discipline is essential.
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by believeme1
Mar 16, 2000 please make sure the child looks up to you
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by SMITHSWOODSIDE
Jul 23, 2000 DISCIPLINING KIDS
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by lizf
Jan 2, 2001 I Will NEVER Discipline My Child!
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by JudyinAL
Aug 7, 2000 Punishment works great!
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by AZSweetie
Dec 16, 2000 Respect and Responsibility
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by GXTech
May 26, 2000 Three strikes and it's Gone
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by 2281779
Aug 9, 2000 Discipling Children
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by ANGELTAZ21
Apr 24, 2000 Disciplining Helps
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by chrissymat
Jul 7, 2000 Be Courteous on Public Transportation
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