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I Love to Love My Babies!Oct 26 '00 Write an essay on this topic.When you have a child, it's the beginning of a whole new kind of love. A love that has no boundaries, no limits and is unconditional! In my opinion it's so easy to show your children you love them. In so many ways. For school age kids: Make them their favorite meal for dinner. I still, at age 25, get to tell my grandma what I want her to make for dinner on my birthday and I still feel special! That's one of her ways of saying, "you're special." Stick a note in their lunchbox. Like, "Have a great day! Love, Mom" I still love getting notes from my mom. I save all the cards she gives me. When I'm feeling down or bad about myself, I pull them out and read them. It lifts my spirits. Now, my oldest is only 2 years old. The first thing I do when she wakes up in the morning is greet her with hugs and kisses. It's the best way to start the day. It's important as well that if daddy's home he does the same, or when he comes home in the evenings. My husband is very loving with our daughter. My son is almost 4 months old. He gets plenty of hugs and kisses as well and a lot of "I love you's!" He may not understand the meaning of those words yet but he knows by the smile on my face that I'm saying something affectionate because he smiles from ear to ear! I like to watch my daughter play with dolls because that shows me what she's learned from me. She also hugs them and kisses them. (and has attempted to breast feed them! lol) My friend's nephew had never got affection from his mother. His parent's had divorced and his dad never made time for him and his mom wasn't emotionally stable at all. She barked at him a lot. Well, one night I went to see my friend and he was there. This three year old child kept running up to me, kick me and run off. I finally figured out that this little guy was in need of some serious attention! The only way he knew to get attention was to act in a negative manner. So this behavior can be due to lack of affection. In closing, love on your kids. Too much t.v. may be bad for them, too much candy, but they can never receive too much love! And hey! As fast as they grow, they won't always be a room or two away to hug or kiss! |
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