Why is this a debate?
May 24 '00
I have a difficult time with the fact that to breastfeed or not is an issue for debate. Breastfeeding is a personal choice. I certainly feel that everyone should be presented with all the facts about breatfeeding and the benefits of breastmilk from their doctors and/or midwives during pregnancy, then they should be left alone to make whatever decision fits their lives best.
Yes, I believe that breastmilk is a superior babyfood. Yes, I think that breastfeeding is an incredible bonding experience. And yes, I chose to breastfeed my son for the first year of life and I love it ... but that is me.
There are many woman who simply are unable to breastfeed and feel guilty about it - even devastated and there is no need for this. There are also other women who for one reason or another are unwilling to breastfeed - that is their choice. I have felt their guilt when I have pulled out an occasional bottle for my son and had to withstand the glares of some of my breastfeeding friends.
Sure - breastfeeding is probably the choice with the most advantages for babies (and mommies too) but what is the advantage of making others feel bad about their choices? The choice to breastfeed or formula feed does not a good or bad parent make. I know a woman who breastfeeds her daughter and seriously chastises anyone who makes any other choice. This same woman is having an extramarital affair - now I ask what is more likely to do more damage to her child in the long run, formula or a broken family?
I hope that people will stop thinking of this as an issue for which they have any say in another persons life - advice is great- but the choice is ultimately that of the mother.
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