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I wish I knew the answer, son
by hhassell99 | Nov 22 '00
One of the most vivid memories I have is September 16, 1998 - the day my daughter died. I remember discovering her, calling 911, and the paramedics pronouncing her dead. Most of all, I remember my 2 1/2 year old son sitting on the couch, quiet,...

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not knowing what to say (Reply to this comment)
by sumo_rhino

I've read some of your reviews today.

I've so desperately wanted to post a comment on every one. But, words fail me. I don't know what to say -- or I don't know how to say it.

So, instead, I just let you know I've added you to my WOT.

I've dealt with grief. I've written Epinions about my parents' deaths, my grandmother's death, a friend's death and explaining it to our daughters. But I can't imagine the scope of your experience.

My wife had a miscarriage during her third pregnancy. The due date was September 17, and the child would have been 3 years old this year.

I think about it a lot.

- sumo_rhino
Jul 11 '01
6:41 am PDT

Prayers, Hugs, and Blessings! (Reply to this comment)
by Lisa_J
Your son is blessed to have a mommy that is open and honest!

Apr 23 '01
5:28 pm PDT

:) (Reply to this comment)
by IrishMa4
I'm very sorry for your loss. I will read your other articles to learn more.

I like the way you are explaining things to your son.

My daughter died 9 1/2 years ago. She was our first so we always had to explain to our children but without them ever having met her.

My best to your family, from one Angel mom to another.

((( hug )))

*~Bobbie
IrishMa4@yahoo.com
Apr 04 '01
1:43 pm PDT

You seem.... (Reply to this comment)
by char.mike
to be doing a wonderful job in helping your son deal with grief and understand death. My heart goes out to you. ((((((HUGS)))))))Char
Nov 25 '00
5:21 pm PST

Thanks for sharing. (Reply to this comment)
by jgibson2
I'm so sorry that you had to go through this, but thank you for sharing what you've learned.

A teenage friend of my older kids committed suicide last year. I've been struggling to explain so much to my 5 year old since then. I never know when or where he will ask. I particularly like the paper bag/soul explanation. I think I'll use that with him the next time this comes up.

Judy
Nov 24 '00
2:41 pm PST

My son asks also (Reply to this comment)
by nwinston
We had a daughter who died and my son
has continued asking about it in different
and more comprehending ways as he gets
older. He's 7 now and still trying
to understand. I just keep answering.
Nancy
Nov 22 '00
8:21 pm PST
   

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