Adoption: what is was to me
Jun 04 '00 (Updated Jul 08 '00)
Adoption: What It was For Me!
06/04/00
First of all I would like to say that this was not an easy situation for me. I had just gotten out of High School. I was pregnant 6 months later. I was terrified! I moved back in with the father and his mother. Great we will get married and I'll be a mother. Well my dreams where crushed when his mother told him that he could stay with her, but I had to leave this was in the middle of a snow storm in February. I said ok fine and proceed to walk to a house on the hill and asked if I could use the phone to call my parents.
I went back to live with my parents and tried to figure out what I was going to do. They told me to abort the baby. Right! Me abort this baby? I told them I wasn't going to kill any thing that was a part of me. I went through the month, and wound up staying at a home for pregnant women and girls. While I was there a friend of mine said, Why don't you put the baby up for adoption.
So I checked in to it and it sounded really good. There are people out there who are simply crushed that they cant have kids, and would love my child and give it all the things I couldn't give it. Being able to give a child love and not being able to provide it a good home because you're stressed out from the decisions from adult hood. Adult hood is hard and the child can suffer in many ways, if the parent is not ready for the decision that is put upon her from keeping the baby.(Bills, school, rent, job.) Well, I felt really good that I made the decision, by putting her up for adoption. I know she is cared for and that I made the right dicision for her. I wasn’t selfish, and I cried from it for a long time, but I gave her life. I gave her a letter that was 13 pages long and it’s in her file.
When she gets to be 18, which is September, 19th ,she can read the letter if she wants to. If she doesn't, that's okay. I made my dicision to do what I did, and it was right for me. What brought me to this you might ask? It was from a health class in school they showed us about the female anadomy and aborted babys at 2 weeks and so on, you could see it was a baby! I was the only one in the class crying about what I saw. Adoption might not be for everyone, but for me, it was.
Victoria Ann Welsome might come back, and she might not, but I'll never forget her, and will always want the best for her. Thats what a parents job is to want better than what we had for our children. I never regret the decision I made for her. I had a friend who was adopted, and she told me she was very loved by the people who adopted her and she loves her mother for putting her up if that was what she had to do for her, and doesn't hate her mother for it. She was a great help when I needed it . I dedicate this to my daughter Victoria, and my daughter Melissa you are the best! Love Mommy
For further reading please go to : http://abortiontv.com/AbortionPictures2.htm . This is to educate people on the subject of abortion something I feel strongly about. but if people dont know what it is then how can they make the right choice
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