Once you fall it's hard to get back up!
Written: Mar 05 '00 (Updated Mar 05 '00)
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Pros: It taught me a new lesson in devotion
Cons: It's not entirely possible
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| Destini's Full Review: Leil Lowndes - How to Make Anyone Fall in Love Wit... |
Recently, I read a book called “How to Make Anyone Fall in Love with You”. I borrowed it from a friend of mine. It caught a few glances from my challenged eyes since I do want to learn a few things about making someone fall in love with me. I begged her if I could borrow it, so she finally agreed. I held it in my hands until I drove home, ran to my room and threw myself onto the bed ready to learn about Love. Considering that I am a person that has been in love, I wanted to figure out how to make someone fall for me. So I laid there and read about the infamous L-O-V-E.
After I read all 85 techniques on how to make a person fall in love, I actually thought it was possible. I thought it over and shook my head at the vibes I got from the book. Then, I woke up and thought that it was irrational and ridiculous! It’s impossible to force someone’s love onto you. Love doesn’t just come from the mouth but the mind, body and soul. There is no way, love can be handled like a board game or just a four letter word! No one knows the true meaning of love and why it exists in human nature...but many people knows how it makes us feel and how it makes us react. Leil Lowndes uses a beautiful imagery on how love can be, and has a strength of mind nothing contrasts to, but I find these theories
completely out of hand. Love has no boundaries or limits.
The first time I said “I Love You” to my ex boyfriend was marvelous. I was on cloud nine! I couldn’t think of anything else than being strictly happy with him. I thought about him constantly, daydreamed on our future, every time I spoke his name my heart pumped faster, and the long stares that left my sparkling eyes onto his pictures left mesmerizing marks on my heart. After I first said “I Love You” to him, I didn’t expect him to say it back. Actually, I didn’t want anything from him besides his comfort and care. Love from him didn’t really matter since I carried the love for both of us.
Time after time, I never awaited his answer after my soul spoke out. I would always say it to him and not even think of getting a response. One day I just couldn’t bare not hearing it, so I finally asked him how he really felt. It just so happened that he wasn’t ready for that type of commitment. He cared about me but couldn’t actually look straight into my eyes and say those three magic words I was always destined to hear. I thought that it wasn’t a big deal but afterwards I started feeling the
side effects. Being miserable on not having his love, we broke it off. It took me 4 months to recover his inconsiderate antics to keep me in his life.
I tried to force onto his love but nothing was pouring into my hands. I bought books just like this one here by Lowndes, but none of them seemed to work. That’s when I realized that love doesn’t conquer anything unless it’s being explored. You have to set yourself up for the journey and if you’re not ready to leave that urban nest, nothing will be traded. In deep gratitude to these type of love books, I strongly appreciate how they’re trying to help people out with not being loved...BUT love doesn’t come from a book! It comes from the heart. Love exists in minds that believe in it..seeing isn’t believing..believing is seeing; just how love works at its best.
As you can see, I disagree with these sort of books in relation to any sort of love. There is no way you can egg on someone’s feelings for you; it has to happen naturally and no one can fool mother nature!
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